le 5 Octobre 2013 à 07:47
See that girl across the room? You'd like to do something other than just stare at her, right? Well, most guys want to do more than look. The good news is that you are about to find out just how easy this is. Tags : phone number
Now, before you walk over there and stun her with your wicked opener, make sure she's not going to barf all over you. Nobody likes being thrown up on. Well, most people don't. This alone will put you head and shoulders above pretty much every other guy out there.
It would be helpful if you could read her mind, but this isn't really necessary. Body language will tell you everything that you need to know. If her back is facing you, that's a bad sign. If you smile at her, does she smile back, or start screaming and pointing at you?
The quicker you make a move, the better. If you waste time, she'll think you're not interested. Naturally, too many signals will take forever, so don't bother waiting for them. Of course, there is some risk. She might have bad breath or something. The only way to find out is to go over there and talk to her. Leave the fear behind. She's not going to knife you in the throat.
Walk up and then what? Don't use any corny lines from books or pick up sites. Walk over and using some simple, old fashioned introductions are your best bet. Say hello like a normal human. Tell her your name, and then ask her hers. Unless you're wearing name tag, you are going to have to introduce yourself. You don't have a problem with this, do you?
When you get there, start talking. Don't worry too much about the content of the conversation, just relax and keep it flowing. Just avoid any of those uncomfortable pauses.
We're coming up on some good stuff. While you're talking to her, you've got to pay close attention to her body language. If she's flashing some good signals, then you should go for the number. If she's not facing you, or not holding eye contact, bail out.
How can you easily get her number without fail? Just ask. Say you like her, and you want to see her again. Then give her your phone. She'll know what to do.
So easy, right? Get in the habit of doing this a few times whenever you go out, and pretty soon you'll have more numbers than you know what to do with.
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